Babyology feature by Anita Butterworth

Give frustrated babies a hand with baby sign language

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Babies have one way to let us know how their feeling, right? Perhaps not!

Crying. It’s the most primal form of communication available to humans, and for babies it lets their carer know if they’re hungry, tired, have a dirty nappy, are sick, etcetera. And therein lies the confusion. Is it a cry of boredom? A scream for sleep? It can be utterly overwhelming for mums and dads. Signing Stars Baby Sign Language Kit is designed to give parents a leg up, by using hands as a language tool.

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Baby sign language is the use of gestures to communicate, before a baby develops the use of speech. It’s designed to help recognise their needs, wants and interests and it aims to reduce frustration, both on the part of parents and children. It’s designed to be taught to babies from around six to nine months – when they begin to interact. Take a look at the video below to see baby sign language in action.

Signing Stars is designed by three mums, and the products are endorsed by Deaf Australia as true Auslan. Their Baby Sign Language Learning Kit is packed with everything needed to go on the signing journey, including removable stickers to place around your home, a DVD Dictionary, flashcards and a fact sheet. It can be purchased directly from Signing Stars for $59.95.

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Language development and baby sign language

Baby signing "toilet"

A common question about baby sign language is: “Will using signs mean my baby is less interested in talking?” Well, the answer is a big no! It’s quite the opposite actually.

Your baby is able to master using gestures as a way of communicating well before their vocal skills are developed for speech. This means they can have the ability to let you know what they are thinking or feeling before they can tell you with words. It is like bridging a gap in communication for them, although signing will continue to bring them many benefits long after they start talking.

Your baby learns to speak by observing you using words in combination with gestures, tone and facial expressions. Introducing signing enhances your baby’s language development experiences by adding another dimension to their learning; it makes it fun and keeps them interested by really capturing their attention.

Within the first 3-4 months, babies realise that when they make noise, people respond. When a parent or caregiver responds to a baby’s cries, the baby begins to trust her means of communication, because her needs are being met. In the second 6 months of life, babies begin to babble in the language of their parents and other caregivers. Their motor skills are also beginning to develop rapidly.

Babies and toddlers do not understand words out of context, so is important to use signs when they are relevant throughout your day and to always say the word whilst performing the sign.

By 18-24 months, toddlers begin to use action words. These words express what they see or want, leaving out adjectives and other grammar. They may come out with short phrases such as ‘Mummy go’, or ‘Shoes on’. Babies and toddlers also speak through gestures and tone of voice. What they do physically may be as important as what they actually say.

When toddlers are mastering their speech skills signing is a great way for them to get their point across when they can’t find all the words to express what they want to say.

As your baby develops language skills and learns to communicate in their first year they may:

  • respond to you when you talk by making noises or becoming quiet
  • coo, gurgle and babble (from 4 months)
  • respond when you say her name (at around 5 months)
  • say ‘ah goo’ or another combination of vowels and consonants (at around 6 months)
  • imitate some of the sounds and gestures that you make (from about 8 months)
  • play with making sounds – for example, she might try different sounds, pitches and volume
  • make longer sequences of sounds, some of which have the tone and rhythm of normal speech (at around 8 months)
  • say ‘muma’ or ‘dada’, although she might not necessarily be talking about mum or dad (around 9 months)
  • put two vowel sounds together (from 8 months)
  • imitate sounds such as coughing, laughing, clicking, or making ‘raspberries’
  • enjoy games such as peekaboo and other action games
  • use gestures to respond to or initiate a conversation
  • communicate with purpose, mainly to request, insist, refuse, reject or greet
  • ask for something by pointing or looking at a person and then at something she wants
  • say a few words with a clear meaning, such as ‘muma’ or ‘dada’, to refer to Mum or Dad (at around 12-14 months)
  • indicate ‘no’ with a shake of the head (from 10 months)
  • understand very simple instructions with verbal and visual cues – for example, handing you a toy when you say ‘ta’ and hold your hand out to her.
  • know and use about 10 words (at 15 months).

There’s a lot of variation among children when it comes to talking. Some children will still not say much even by the time they’re 2.

Playing different games involving signing is a great way to help expand your toddler’s vocabulary. Many toddlers still enjoy learning new signs long after they start talking, they may also love to join in teaching a new baby brother or sister signs.

Update on Milly and Aiden

Well Milly is 11months now and has picked up her signing pretty well. She now has a handful of signs that she uses with us! It is truly amazing to see first hand in your own baby. Daddy is pretty astounded too and is really getting into it once he saw a few successes!

Olivia signed back!!

We were away at Batemans Bay for Easter long weekend. We are all down the beach and there was a group of sea gulls, and i as signing ‘bird’ to her as Ava was chasing them. olivia thought Ava was very funny chasing the birds. Then all of a sudden olivia signed back to me,and it was not my imagination, my husband saw it too. Then that night at the dinner table she signed ‘eat’. Both in the one day. Needless to say i was very excited and a very proud mum that day.

Olivia’s Diary update

Well what can I say, not much progress has been made with Olivia’s baby signing, but that’s ok she is not going to get it straight away. She loves waving bye bye to Daddy when he leaves for work and the girls at day care where she goes tell me she waves to everyone. So I can at least tell she can do that baby sign! She also thinks she is very clever when she claps her hands
I am changing my approach with teaching her to Baby Sign Language, because she is such a laid back, HAPPY baby. She does not need Baby Signing for communicating. What she wants as she just goes with the flow. So I am trying the ‘motivational’ approach. So now I am trying to teach her signs for toys that she wants. For example she has ‘Sophie’ a giraffe that she loves, so now when she wants ‘Sophie’ I sign giraffe. Also whenever I turn a light on she can see I sign light and when we see a bird I sign bird just to name a few. I am hoping the change to ‘motivational’ signing will help kick start her along. There are no hard and fast rules to Baby Signing; I think trial and error is the key. See what is best for you and your! And to have fun in the process!!!
On the other hand, Ava my oldest loves learning new signs. With the signs she already knows I can do the sign with out talking and she knows what I am saying. For example the other day she was taking food from a table that was not hers and I saw her doing it and I signed ‘no’ to her, she just looked at me I kept signing no and she eventually took her hand away. She was such a good girl.
She knows a lot of signs already. We eventually might be able to have secret mummy, daughter conversations with out daddy knowing!!
I have also noticed her speech is a lot clearer and I believe signing has helped her with this, when she is talking to me she will sign as well if she knows the sign for the word she is saying.
We went to our first baby signing class last week with ‘Tiny Hands Talk’ and Ava loved it. We had a lot of fun!!

Update on Milly and Aiden

Well, Milly is 11months now and has taken to baby sign pretty well. She now has a handful of signs that she uses to comunicate with us. Aiden(3) has been a wonderful teacher and as Milly just adores anything that her brother shows her, this has really helped her learning. It is truly amazing to experience it first hand with your own child! Daddy is even getting into it once he witnessed those first few successes!

Thought you might enjoy seeing them in action….

Here is a snippet of Milly telling us she has ‘finished’ her dinner…

And Aiden teaching Milly the sign for ‘milk’…

I hope your signing is going well….

Amanda

Signing with Milly…

Well, I have begun signing with my 6month old, Milly!

Aiden(my 3 year old) has been studying the signs to help me teach Milly baby sign…


Aiden and I have been showing Milly the sign for ‘milk’ for a few weeks now…

She is definately now recognising the sign as she goes bananas when we do it! This was a good one to start with with her as she LOVES her milk!

Now we just keep persevering and wait for her to sign back….will keep you informed…

Amanda

Harri’s first Sign!


Wow, how exciting to see my six and a half month old son Harri signing! I started doing a few signs with him from about four months. At first I found it hard to keep his attention so I backed off for a while, lately though he has been watching our every move and really showing lots of interest in everything around him so I started again with just a few signs. Things have been pretty hectic at our place in the past month, packing up our house in Sydney and moving to Canberra, which made it hard to be really consistant with it, so I was quite suprised to see Harri signing back “Mummy” after showing him maybe half a dozen times. We got so excited and gave him so much praise for being so clever, he was very proud of himself!
Harri’s big sister Maija is almost 3 and is very keen to teach him to sign, she loves to show him different signs and play games with our Signing Stars flashcards with him. We didn’t start signing with Maija until she was over 1 so its very exciting to be signing this early with Harri. Now that we are set up in our new house I will put up our “Signs that Stick” to help Daddy(Henrik) can get involved too.
Will update with news on our signing progress soon,

Sonya

Ava & Olivia




Time has flown! Ava will be three soon and Olivia is walking talking some what and her signing is going great guns!
Ava has learnt a lot more signs lately and is very keen to learn more.
The signing class I organised with Tiny Hands Talk was really good, the kids loved it. Unfortunately Ava was sick and did not get to go. Olivia liked it though. There was fun for all.
Olivia’s favourite sign at the moment is ‘dog’ everything is dog! She has also started saying ‘mummy’ Finally!!!!! ‘Dad’ not so much, which is weird because ‘dad’ is usually the one they say first, but I don’t mind at all.
Olivia’s BIG news is that she has learnt a new sign, ‘bath’. Although it does not look like the Auslan way, it is Olivia’s way.
Olivia also has six teeth now and still chases Ava around, but now she can do it a little faster. They also ‘play’ together and see who can annoy each other first, and then it ends up who can hit each other the hardest!!!!…..then the tears come.

I have also put our signing poster in our kitchen which i think has helped them alot because they see the signs all the time. Sometimes Ava will sit down with me and we go through all the signs and ‘play find the sign’. She likes this as much as playing ‘hide and seek’!!

Our chickens are also growing up. They are all fully grown…but no eggs yet!…i keep telling myself they will earn there keep soon. The girls love playing with them. When Ava and Olivia wake up in the morning and come into the kitchen the first thing they look for are the chickens. Olivia signs ‘bird’ and points at them with a big smile on her face. It is so cute!

Why is it that when you try and get them to show other people the signs that they know, they suddenly don’t know them anymore…why is that?

I would like to thank the people who have seen and are using Signing Stars products. We like hearing the nice feedback and are very proud of our products.

Happy signing!!
Kylie

Ava, Olivia and Maija and the iphone




These are some pictures of the girls playing with our iphone app. All three of them are very clever at it!!!!